Dear Friends,
Recently, I have been having some changes in the people that
are my friends and those who I wanted more than friendship from. One of the
main reasons why I hate dating is because some women tend to make sure men know
their place in their life. Some women don’t do this and want a man to make them
happy but others make sure men know their place. This is something I have wanted
to write about because it boggles my mind as to how women do this. So this is
going to be the blog about knowing your place in life and with women in
general.
First and foremost, why do women tell a man to know his
place in their lives? Some women have been hurt by men and that’s their way to
weed out the users from the sincere ones. That I can understand and relate to
only because I have been hurt myself. I can also understand if the woman is too
busy to be in a relationship and just want a man for friendship or a shoulder
to lean on. That makes perfect sense to me. However, in this world we live in
now, women make a man know their place because to some women, they either use
men for monetary purposes and sex or they use a man to have kids and leave them
out in the cold. Either way, it is not a good way to make a man feel worth something.
Second, if a woman has been hurt and you just want a male
friend, then just say so. Some women don’t make that clear at first or worse,
they do something to change or ruin the friendship. Some women tend to do this
by screwing a male friend. Some men don’t mind this but those men would take
advantage of the situation. Others would do their best to be gentlemen and
progress the friendship. If a woman really wants something they would make it
clear not use the situation.
Third, if you are complete opposites but you remain friends
then leave it as that. Don’t lead a man on to thinking you want him and he won’t
do the same. People that date tends to skew the line between friendship and
lovers. Having differences is a good thing but also can come back to bite you in
the ass. Something I learned is that if you meet someone and you seek
friendship but want more then let your intentions be known but if the woman is
your opposite or worse, then definitely say something before it gets bad. Some
women forget to say something and the situation gets worse. I guess it is
better to have similar likes than differences.
Finally, this is my biggest pet peeve with women: being
materialistic. I understand that it is hard to find work. I understand that it
is hard to not have a place, a car, or even hope for the future. Some women do
have all these things and more while being independent. Some women want a man
for friendship and more. Some women don’t want a man at all. However, if a man
does not have a job then doesn’t assume he is broke. If a man does not have a
place, don’t assume he’s homeless. Women that are materialistic think or assume
that if they pay for dinner, movies, or even ice cream then the man is trifling.
I don’t have a place to live at per se but I do have a job. I can pay my bills
and treat someone to dinner, a movie or ice cream. My overall point is that if
a woman makes a man know their place, then things will be ok but if they don’t
that’s where the issues lie. For now, I will let this go but I also hope people
learn something from this. There is more to come.
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