Dear Friends,
Well if you have not been paying attention to my facebook status, my mom was supposed to get married. Now that’s a touchy subject because my mom has not been married. My father is married and I have a step mother and step siblings. My mother has been alone since my father. So when she told me she was getting married, I was not really shocked but I tried to be happy about it. I also wanted to see my mom happy and get a step father. However this was the case as you will see after reading. Rather than go into details and bore you all, I will make this short and sweet:
My mother was suppose to be married to a guy she have not seen in 30 years. He taught me how to use the bathroom. She was happy and singing. I was happy for her. It all went downhill once he was seen. First, he runs off with my mom’s atm card. He also tried to control my mother’s actions and moves. Even though he was ex military, he was more of an asshole. Finally, he came close to pissing me off and us fighting. There are some more things to this story but the jest is that my mom is not married to this asshole.
So what now? My mom is ok, but I learned that if you want to be married, be patient. Don’t rush because that’s where issues come up. I been looking to be married for years but I am not ready to be responsible for someone else yet. I am almost done getting my shit in order. I love my mother and she will be married but not to an asshole. More to come.
Eugene Chandler III
Tuesday, January 11, 2011
New Year's Revelations 2011: Genesis
Dear Friends,
Happy Belated New Year! I know I am late with my blogs but I wanted to get through the first week and also start my last semester at Monroe County Community College. I am happier to finally say that I am going to finish school. So a lot of things happened since my last blog of 2010. I did intend to blog more this year and I will. My goal for this year is to be more active online and also with my life. I do intend on doing more things with blogging and vlogging. Plus I am working on websites for myself and hopefully for others soon.
So what will 2011 bring? I hope to be doing more and finally getting my life right. I am trying to do things different. I might fall and stumble but I will not give up. No more being depressed because I spend a lot of time in my life and my blogs being depressed. I might have my moments but I am not going to get depressed. I will be more active because I need to do more for my life and what I want to do in my life. I will be 33 this year and I’m not young anymore. I will be more seasoned in my thinking and my processes.
This is my year to be happier, successful and finally able to be proud of myself. No matter what happens, this is not going to be a year of misery. So far, my life is getting shaped into something I can be proud of. Some of my issues in 2010 will creep up but no more bullshit in my life. More to come.
Eugene Chandler III
Happy Belated New Year! I know I am late with my blogs but I wanted to get through the first week and also start my last semester at Monroe County Community College. I am happier to finally say that I am going to finish school. So a lot of things happened since my last blog of 2010. I did intend to blog more this year and I will. My goal for this year is to be more active online and also with my life. I do intend on doing more things with blogging and vlogging. Plus I am working on websites for myself and hopefully for others soon.
So what will 2011 bring? I hope to be doing more and finally getting my life right. I am trying to do things different. I might fall and stumble but I will not give up. No more being depressed because I spend a lot of time in my life and my blogs being depressed. I might have my moments but I am not going to get depressed. I will be more active because I need to do more for my life and what I want to do in my life. I will be 33 this year and I’m not young anymore. I will be more seasoned in my thinking and my processes.
This is my year to be happier, successful and finally able to be proud of myself. No matter what happens, this is not going to be a year of misery. So far, my life is getting shaped into something I can be proud of. Some of my issues in 2010 will creep up but no more bullshit in my life. More to come.
Eugene Chandler III
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