May Madness: Being a Bitch....

Dear Friends,

Lately, I have been hit hard with something that I find funny and tragic. This is something that most men won’t bring up or speak of. We as men are told not to call women bitches but there are times that women do act like a bitch. I know that if you call a woman a bitch you are also talking about your mother.  I know at times my mother acts like a bitch but she also has mellowed in her old age. With all that said, I really think it’s time to bring this up because some women act entitled or spoiled at times. I also think that there are other reasons why some women act like a bitch.

If you were to ask women their number one pet peeve with men these days, it is what I call the trifecta. If a man has a job, car, and a place then they are happy and cool. However, in life we have issues and difficulties and some times but some women don’t care about that. That’s where some women become bitches because of their lack of empathy. Something I have been seeing is that when a man have a job, they are cool but if they are broke, fuck you loser. Same thing when a man has no place or a car. It is growing to be a double standard with this because if a woman is homeless, jobless, or car-less then some men would be dicks to them.

Some women are materialistic. The ones that are would not hide it but tell you. Others are not going to say something but you could pick up on it. The women that act like bitches tend to also act materialistic because they don’t want to be without. Women do work hard these days for what they have but it is also growing a materialistic mentality. A man could be flashy and showy but if a woman does that, she is a bitch as well.

One more thing, women are being snobs. Being a bitch is also like being a snob. Their mothers in the past were not selective with things but there are more choices. Women of the past would pass these traits to their kids. These days it is growing to be an issue because the younger women grow to being snobs and being bitchy at the same time.

I might not have made a clear point but my point is that women that are being a bitch these days are going to pass this on to their daughters or even sons. If you going to be like that, then notify people because it is not fun to find out as you go. Younger women act like bitches because they are entitled. Older women act like bitches because they have been hurt. I am not trying to be a dick but someone needs to bring it up. If I get hate mail, then be it. Speak to you all soon.

Eugene Chandler III