April Showers: Happy Home 2012

Dear Friend,

This might be a weird topic to talk about but I think it needs some explaining. We all have our own unique ways to classify life. We use catchphrases, slang, and other forms of languages to talk about things. I am no different in the matter, especially when it comes to certain aspects of life. If you have ever talked to me in person, you know what I say about being in a commented relationship. Today, I am going to finally discuss my ideology of commented relationships. I refer to it as a happy home. So we will talk about my idea of and for a happy home.

A happy home is when two people are in a commented relationship. I don’t discriminate when I speak on this. Whether you’re straight, gay, lesbian, or whatever, the happy home concept applies to all of us. In this world, most people don’t think about a happy home. I came up with this concept decades ago. As a teen, I believed that people should be with someone and stick with them until it unbearable. Most teen relationships last like a couple of weeks. Some that go beyond are the ones that I would call a true happy home. When I was in college, happy home became something of a philosophy. I don’t believe in cheating and hate when people do it. I am no saint and have done it myself. That’s why a happy home is a strong belief with me.

A happy home also means that you should not stray from you commitment. What bothers me most about when people cheat is because someone is not making the other happy. People cheat only because our needs are not met. Another way to look at this is when someone is not happy being in this relationship. Men cheat because they aren’t getting the pussy. That only happens when women are pregnant, or on their cycle. Women cheat when men cheat. Women seek someone that will be sensual but also willing to do what their man won’t. When people cheat, that is not a happy home.

I have created and changed the happy home concept since 1995 to be my idea for being happy and in a commented relationship. Most of my ex-girlfriends would say that I was faithful to the exceptions of those I have cheat on. I think in my life, I found someone that I could be happy with only time will tell if I truly have a happy home. That’s all for now, but there is more to come.

Eugene Chandler III